Judas and Jesus: the betrayal

Judas & Jesus: Love Your Enemy

Paule Bible Study, Theology 2 Comments

Several years ago, there was a woman with a skilled habit of spreading false rumors about yours truly. Surprisingly, she was not my favorite person. One fine Sunday morning, she was standing about 4 rows in front of my wife and I getting her worship on as the entire congregation was singing. This woman raised her arms perpendicular to the floor while her palms were parallel and was swaying her hips to and fro. I can vividly recall glaring at her and contemplating how great of a hypocrite she was. I mean, here she …

Boys running on the beach

Forgiving Dad

Paule Personal 2 Comments

  Recently, I hurt my 5-year-old son, Micaiah. Something I had repeatedly told him not to do I thought he had done. He is in that stage of perfecting his skill of deception. So obviously any response he gave could not be trusted.  I yelled in his face while waving my finger threateningly between his eyes and then swatted his butt…a little harder than I should had. Sobbing, tears trickling down his pale cheeks from his bloodshot baby blue eyes, he still insisted he didn’t do it. Isaiah, my 4-year-old, lumbered into the room …

The Rise of Victimhood

Paule Ministry, Philosophy, Student Ministry, Theology 2 Comments

Counseling is something I just happen to do. As a student pastor, there are many hats to wear and counselor is definitely one of them. For some reason, counseling comes naturally to me. Other than one college course (maybe two…don’t really recall), I haven’t had any official training or education in counseling. My hunch is that my natural knack for it comes from my personal wiring and that I’ve learned the art of bluffing. I am a good liar. My default defense mechanism is to bluff. I am both proud and ashamed …